Live, Love, Huh?!

This language isn’t a toy for you to use to make yourself feel “special” or “unique.” Take the time to get it right.

Haigh, a chairde!

I’ve been racking my brains lately, trying to thing of something to write about after six months of COVID hiatus. Adjusting to working from home  (yes, I have a day job), and dealing with the stress, worry, and day-to-day concerns really took their toll on the creative process.

Then, two days ago, I opened up Facebook and there, right in front of me, was this gem of a bad Irish tattoo, shared to my page by a friend (Thanks, Máire Uí Brádaigh! Facebook friends rock!)

Woo hoo! Problem solved! Writer’s block broken!

A common (i.e., overdone) request

Ever since I began learning Irish, in  2004, “Live Laugh Love” or some variant thereof (some want “Live Love Laugh” or “Laugh Live Love”) has been the single most common tattoo translation request among women.

(Seriously, if you’re looking for something original, this ain’t it)

Why they want it in Irish I have no idea, but want it they do. If my experience is any indicator, there must be hundreds of women with some version of this permanently marked on their skin in Irish — the lucky/smart ones in good Irish. The others, not so much. Three guesses as to which this person is.

Suffice it to say that what she has on her back is NOT “Live Laugh Love” — in “Gaelic” or in any other language.

(By the way, if you’re curious, the single most common tattoo translation among men is some variation on “None but God may judge me/Only God can judge me.” Dudes can be unoriginal too.)

So what does it REALLY say? “Live…?”

So if it doesn’t say “Live Laugh Love,” what does it say? Let’s start with the first word: Beo.

English is full of words that are spelled the same way but that sound different and have different meanings (the technical name for these is “heteronyms”). “Live” is a prime example. If you pronounce it to rhyme with “give” it is a verb meaning, depending on context, “exist,” “survive,” “enjoy/experience life,” etc.

If you pronounce it to rhyme with “hive,” however, it is an adjective meaning “alive” or “living” (for example “live bait,” i.e., bait that is alive).

When people with a limited understanding of how languages work attempt to do their own translations (note: this is a very bad idea), they tend to forget this tiny detail. You can read more about this in another blog post I wrote a while back: “It’s a Long Life with a Bad Tattoo.

To put it simply, our tattooed friend grabbed the wrong one. “Beo” means “Alive.”

The laughing stud horse?

The second word (really a non-word) is causing a great deal of hilarity on the Irish-speaking internet because, at first glance, it looks like the “translator” intended to write “stud horse.”

Fortunately (I guess), she kind of missed the mark there, as the word for a stud horse is Graíre and what she has there is “Gráire.” The presence (or lack) and placement of an accent mark makes a huge difference in Irish. Put it in the wrong place, leave it out, or put it in when it isn’t called for, and you have a different word.

For more on this: Are You a Fada-less Child?

So the sort-of good news is that she doesn’t have “stud horse.” The bad news is she has nothing at all. “Gráire” isn’t a word in Irish.

It’s likely the person was aiming for “Gáire” — “Laughter/a Laugh.” What she has, though, is nonsense.

Of course, this hasn’t stopped people from making jokes about “Alive Shergar Love” (Americans feel free to substitute “Secretariat” for “Shergar”).

And then there’s grá

As the saying goes, even a broken clock is right twice a day (well, an analog one anyway!). Grá” does indeed mean “love,” but it’s a noun, not a verb.

There is a verb “love” in Irish — gráigh — but it’s rarely used. A more usual way of telling someone to love would be tabhair grá : “give love.”

How does this happen?

There are lots of different ways that this kind of mis-translation can happen. One of the most common is a misguided attempt to do a word-for-word translation using a dictionary.

It would be handy if languages worked that way (All you’d have to do is memorize a bunch of vocabulary and bingo! You’d have another language!). Unfortunately for would-be translators, they don’t.

Aside from such pitfalls as the aforementioned heteronyms, the fact is that different languages just work differently. Some examples:

English: Thank you

Irish: Go raibh maith agat (literally “may there be good to-you”)

English: I love you

Irish: Tá grá agam duit (literally “Is love at-me to-you”)

Here’s a pretty classic (and horrifying on many levels) example of what can happen when someone attempts a translation using a dictionary: Even Racists Got the Blues.

Sometimes this happens because someone asks a friend or family member who misrepresents his or her level of Irish. Sadly, this happens way more often than it should. The reality is that true fluency in Irish is rare, even in Ireland, and people who are truly fluent are often reluctant to do this kind of translation for various reasons.

So how DO you say it?

As I mentioned above, this is an extremely common tattoo translation request, and various Irish forums have struggled with the best way to express it.

To express it using verbs is kind of awkward, and can be ambiguous. Irish isn’t English. “Simple” translations often aren’t all that simple.

What I usually suggest is to use nouns:

Beatha Gáire Grá — Life Laughter Love

Show some respect

It’s OK to want a tattoo in Irish. Just , whatever you do, please have enough respect for the language and the culture to get it right. Spend the time and, if necessary, spend the money to get a solid translation. This language isn’t a toy for you to use to make yourself feel “special” or “unique.”

If you need help, drop me a line in the comments below and I can give you some guidance.

Le meas,


In addition to being “The Geeky Gaeilgeoir,” Audrey Nickel is the author of  The Irish Gaelic Tattoo Handbook,” published by Bradan Press, Nova Scotia, Canada.  For information about the book, including where to buy it, please visit


10 thoughts on “Live, Love, Huh?!”

  1. I’ve missed your posts!! I look forward to seeing them arrive in my inbox. I always learn something new each time. Thanks for sharing. I’ve also been trying to learn the language. Patrick Taylor’s books have been useful for learning Ulster Irish ( wee North), but for the other three, it’s been more difficult. Suggestions?

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    1. Hi Anne. I’m glad you’ve enjoyed the posts!

      For your question: do you have another dialect in mind?

      Typically most beginners learn a mixture of dialects (I did) and specialize later if they have a particular interest in a particular part of Ireland. If you’re more Connacht or Munster leaning, let me know and I’ll see what I can find for you.


      1. Thanks for the information. Since I’m just beginning, I’ll follow you and learn a mixture and, maybe, specialize later.


  2. Thanks for that. I’ll tweet it if I may.

    I started wondering at the top of the post how I would translate it and came to the same conclusion as yourself. Nice one.


  3. I’m so happy to have found your blog! I’ve been working on learning Irish Gaeilgh, having a total love for the country and the language. I’m also one of those that wants to get a tattoo in Gaeilgh but as yet haven’t been able to find someone to translate the phrase for me. Having found your blog I feel more confident in what I’ve already learned, as well as now I feel I’ll be able to translate it myself one day. 😁


  4. Oh no im freaking out now …my husband whose family is of irish decent (and they have been doing allot of research on their heritage and such over the last few years) recently got a tattoo and I am now terrified after reading this. His tattoo supposedly says “come and take it”. So he has “teacht agus tóg é” …please for all that is holy tell me its at least close to correct.


    1. I’m sorry, but no…it’s not correct at all.

      To begin with, he’s got the wrong verb form. “Teacht” is the verbal noun, and translates to “to come” or “coming,” depending on context. He needed either “tar” (if addressing one person) or “tagaigí” (if addressing multiple people).

      The other issue has to do with idiom. What, exactly, did he mean by “take it”? What he has is “take it” as you would say if you wanted someone to take something with them (e.g., “take it home with you”). Depending on his exact meaning, it may not be appropriate.

      These very “English-y” idioms are rarely easy to render in Irish. When people come to us seeking something like this, we usually spend quite a long time discussing with them what, exactly, they mean to express. Often a direct translation doesn’t really cut it.

      Sorry to have to tell you this, but hopefully your husband will learn from this and seek expert help if he wants another Irish tattoo down the road.


      1. I think I might choose to keep this to myself i Havent decided…🤦‍♀️

        Its a reference to the government taking freedoms included but nit limited to guns. Like a vague threat of I dare you to come and take it. But the common phrase is just shortened down to come and take it.


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